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Healing the Inner Child - Theater Therapy for Adults

We were all children once. When we become adults, we lose the play and spontaneity of childhood. We become «calcified» – emotionally and mentally.

What has been lost in adulthood can be recaptured through drama games. Theatre therapy helps us to reawaken our “Inner Child” that has become lost to us, the adults. The child is always within us. When we negate that part of ourselves, we disconnect from our true feelings and lose our spontaneity.

Do you want to know how your Inner Child feels? Close your eyes for a moment and become aware of your abdomen or your heart (the place for the Inner Child may be different for different people). Visualise a child in that Sacred Place and observe their mood. What do you perceive: content, peace and happiness; or loneliness, sadness, suppression, anger, indifference, fear?

The unhappy Inner Child is often responsible for our negative patterns of behaviour in life, in our relationships and our job.

Thus, people who have emotional problems often need to examine, recover and unshackle that part of themselves – on their journey to wellness.

When we positively transform the self, we clarify and deepen our sense of connectedness to others. Drama games facilitate self-understanding and self-healing by bringing out aspects of character, personality, emotions and diversity of self-image.

Theater exercises, when led by an experienced and sensitive trainer, offer a safe and structured environment in which we can experiment with moods and physical expression.

The Alexander Technique

This is my personal favourite.

It's an excellent technique to release tension in the muscles. It is also a good pose for a meditation - you can let go of your body without going to sleep.

It can be used to drain out tension, fatigue, mild pain and negative energies and it is great after a strenuous physical workout.

Lie down in a semi-supine position and allow the neck and back muscles to release gently.

Keep awareness on your body, on your breath and focus on letting the floor to support it.

Allow your body to release and lengthen with the help of the force of gravity.

The formulas given below are a form of a program for the subconscious mind to remember the correct body alignment.

Just think the words and allow your body to release and lengthen by itself.

  • I am allowing my neck to be free, so that my head can release forward and up.
  • I am allowing my torso to lengthen up and widen.
  • I am allowing my knees to release forward and away.

One can practice it 10-20 minutes at a time at least once a day.

Of course, there is much more to the technique but it is best to be learnt under a guidance of a qualified person.

Change your physiology to change your mood

It is a known fact that our mood affects our breathing rate, our speech, movements and posture.

The opposite is also true. Our posture, body language, breathing pattern, the words we say – affect our mood and our energy level.

For example, if you are in a depressed physiology (hunched back, head down, eyes cast down, hanging hands, slow movements), your nervous system gets a signal “I am depressed”, and follows it. Then it’s just a matter of time when being depressed becomes a habit for the body and the mind.

How can we change the ‘depressed unit of mind and body’? There are many approaches.

For example in our Theatre Therapy workshops we explore and learn how to heal the unity of our physical and psychic apparatus. The students experience a process of physical development that gives them a better awareness of their body and its mechanism. When our body feels alive, our emotions can freely manifest through it.

The striking example for me of the close connection between emotions and physical movement was the episode when our Theatre Therapy trainer asked the participants to experience and to portray joyful emotions. We could not do it – we were just straining ourselves. Then the trainer asked us to imagine that we were children and we were jumping on a trampoline. And the magic happened easily, effortlessly – instantly there was a sincere feeling of happiness born out of that simple movement.

Energy Psychotherapy is also very effective for helping people to recover from depression. Cleansing of the energy body helps to eliminate ‘stuck’ negative thought-forms and emotions. It results in uplifted mood, a feeling of lightness, clearer mind, more positive outlook, a desire to positively approach and resolve life situations.

The results are even better if the person joyfully and creatively incorporates physical exercises into their daily routine. A forty minutes exercise session acts as a powerful antidepressant.

What about a posture change? It’s the fastest thing you can do. Changing your posture changes your appearance, your body language and the way people perceive you!

The good old yoga asanas will help you to improve your hunched back and shoulders in just few sessions.

I would recommend the following 3 asanas in the specific sequence I learned from the Sivananda Yoga Vedanta Centre many years ago (and still follow it). (By the way, these back bending asanas are also good for reducing abdominal fat!)

  • Cobra (Bhujangasana)
  • Bow (Dhanurasana)
  • Locust (Shalabhasana)

Perform each asana 5-10 times in a slow motion, holding it for 10 counts.

Finish with a counter pose - Shashank asana. Breathe deeply and relax your spine.

Remember, it’s easy to help yourself, you just need the desire to make changes. Start with the small, easy steps: if you stand upright, head erect, smile and breathe deeply, it is impossible to 'feel' depressed.

(Yulia Pal, August 2010)

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